Monday, September 20, 2010

It’s Raining Men - Saratoga During Track Season

A trip to the track gave us the perfect opportunity to check out Siro’s and a week or so later, we returned to Saratoga to see if the Horseshoe was all it was cracked up to be. These two places are a must for meeting men our age – believe it or not we even met local men and for the first time since our adventures began, someone asked for my number!

Siro's August 20, 2010

CK: A recent article in the New York Times made Siro’s out to be a swanky joint for high rollers and mobsters. Maybe this is true in the restaurant but the outside tent is for people leaving the track who want to drink beer out of plastic cups and ogle one another. On our first visit (following a day at the track) I was amazed at the number of men of all ages, shapes and sizes. The ratio must be about 10 men to every 1 overdressed woman. Our companion was not into it at all, so this first trip was a dry run for our actual blog research a few days later (a Thursday evening). We definitely met a lot of men at Siro’s but as with our first Saratoga experience in June, most of them are from out of town and most of them are married. Neither of which stops them from attempting to fondle women, stick Paddock Passes on their chests, or buy them drinks even if they walk away repeatedly. I actually recommend Siro’s; the band was fun, we ran into people we know, and it’s good for the ego.

DT: Great scene for men and, on some nights, decent crowd-pleasing music. But a band that plays ONLY Springsteen can make even the biggest Springsteen fan somewhat despondent. The mixed drinks, even disregarding the plastic cups, are poor. But men . . . yes many men of all shapes, age, sizes and abilities. You can dance with abandon if you want to, or encircle the bar to view the varied clientele. Beware though, the summer in Saratoga scene lends itself to excessive drinking and reckless abandon. If you can finagle your way into the indoor bar, we're told you can find high-rollers, but we discovered they aren't as interesting as the low rollers. And don't ignore the local men in wheelchairs - they can be very entertaining. A fun place to go and meet men and women!

The Horseshoe Inn September 3, 2010

CK: Our new friend MC told us the Horseshoe is the other good place to go after the track. We went on a hot Friday night and found the place to be hopping. It also has an outdoor tent with a band and about a million men of all varieties milling about. I ran into Phil McCracken from high school (not his real name, of course) and his friends. I stayed near the auxiliary bar because I’m not into crowds, dancing or sweating. I wasn’t trying as hard as most of the women there but successfully attracted a harness track aficionado (47, attractive and local). He told me I was part of the "magic of Saratoga." Also Bob and his friend (48, attractive in a Clark Kent sort of way and local). Bob is the one who asked me if I’m in the book! He’s too much of a womanizer for me but the Horseshoe is the best place by far of any we’ve visited since we started the blog!! Highly recommended.

DT: Agree that this place is highly recommended (during track season anyway). Raining men indeed. Just plain old fun . . . although one could easily confuse it with the scene at Siro's. A band that must play there frequently -- because they were there both nights I was -- actually plays the Violent Femmes! How cool is that? As with Siro's, beware of married men in town for a good time! And kudos go out again to LP for accompanying us and tolerating our shameless man-hunting behavior.

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Coffee Talk - September 14, 2010

DT wasn't involved in this "dating experience" so I am posting this myself. It involves what started as a promising encounter at Starbuck's at Stuyvesant Plaza and ends with a self-proclaimed "chattering monkey" using terms like hegemony and Munchausen's Syndrome. Not saying Starbuck's is not a promising venue for meeting men . . .

So I was having coffee at Starbuck's with my sister and making eye contact with a guy reading the paper. When BL and I left, the guy actually approached us and engaged me in conversation! I gave him a lot of credit for doing that (along with my number). I might have seen some foreshadowing in his invitation to a picnic RIGHT THEN. But he had a cute face, a full head of hair and a Metropolitan Museum of Art t-shirt on, so I was being open-minded.

I met him for coffee a couple of nights later and he proceeded to spend an hour and a half talking about his life, his ideology, philosophy, and other fascinating but eccentric and overwhelming topics. Some points:
  • Ran a motorcycle into a telephone pole in his younger days and bruised his brain and can't hear out of one ear.
  • Once lived in a trailer and bathed in a stream.
  • Big into Unitarian Universalist Society.
  • Likes to watch Batman Beyond repeatedly.
  • Has been arrested for possession of a firearm.
  • Stopped in the middle of his "unversation" (a term my father coined about my ex-husband) to say instead of having coffee he'd like to be home "kissing and hugging and loving me." Considering he didn't learn anything about me during our time together, I thought this was a tad premature.
  • If I had met him 10 years ago, he would be railing against Bible-based theologies.
  • He's a storyteller and member of the Adirondack Liars' Club.
  • He's dated pisces, leos and libras (or something like that). Never a virgo.
  • He dreamt of me before he met me. He was at Silver Bay on Lake George and in a room with water and fall colors. He saw two women, one with a wedding ring and the other without. When he saw my sister and me, I was wearing the same colors and my sister had on a ring!!

We left it that I'll call him if I want to get together again.